Wife Makes Sacrifices To Reach Goal
A friend, a stay-at-home mom, who has spent all of her energies for 20 years caring for her 4 children and a hard-working husband, has always thought that she loved the medical field, but never really thought of it as a dream.
She had an epiphany when her second child, a son, started getting unacceptable grades in his junior year of high school, and a counselor told her that, although her first child loved acemdemia and was book-smart, she had to let go and let each child find their passion and feel the consequences of their choices. When she stepped back and began encouraging her son to find his passion but beware of the grades, as they help you have choices in colleges, that child quickly blossomed in the drama and choir groups, grades went up, and ended up with a scholarship to a great college, getting accepted into the Drama school there.
My friend then realized that, even though she was 43, had expenses with two kids in college and 2 more coming along, a husband who was rarely home due to work pressures, and would have an up-hill battle going back to get more college accreditation in pre-medical classes, it is never too late to find and follow your dreams.
She is now in medical school, commuting from an apartment back home on the weekends to connect with her family. She is tired and stressed out right now with the transition, but happy she is chasing her dream. This has actually had a very beneficial impact on her husband's relationship with the children, he is now much more involved, and he is now starting to think about his dreams. She is a true inspiration!
By: Kitty Stevens